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Alan
Head (center), pastor of Trinity United Methodist Church in Tuscaloosa,
Ala., says Quirkey's Coffeehouse shows young people they don't have to
drink to fit in.

Doris
La Grone-Kispert transformed the basement of Trinity United Methodist
Church into Quirkey's Coffeehouse.
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FROM
THE UNITED METHODIST NEWS SERVICE
Church
targets student partying by opening coffeehouse
Feb.
27, 2004
A
UMNS Feature By Amy Green*
Bridget
Cabrera likes to spend her evenings at her church across the street from the
University of Alabama, where she is a music education student. She gathers at
the church with her friends to sip coffee, play games, watch movies and -
sometimes - do homework.
It
is a quiet retreat from the parties her roommates like to throw. "The cool
thing is when you get down there, it doesn't feel like you're in church,"
says Cabrera, 22.
It
appears Trinity United Methodist Church in Tuscaloosa has achieved its goal with
at least one student. Troubled by the university's growing reputation as a party
school - it was ranked among the nation's top party schools in the annual
Princeton Review survey in 2002 - the church decided to give students an
alternative to the alcohol-laden bashes they were accustomed to.
The
result was Quirkey's Coffeehouse, opened last August in a former church storage
room with a name that gives an accurate description of the place. With a setting
more reminiscent of a "Friends" episode than a church fellowship hall,
the coffeehouse has become a popular hangout among students.
It
shows them they don't have to drink to fit in, says the Rev. Alan Head, church
pastor.
"It
lets them know Christ meets us in our everyday experiences, in familiar
settings," he says. "The search for belonging is universal, but Christ
can be the center of that. It doesn't have to be the alcohol or party
scene."
Against
a colorful backdrop of custom-made furniture and artwork, the coffeehouse offers
snacks and a beverage bar where students can mix cappuccinos and smoothies,
three televisions with DVD players and two computers with printers. The
coffeehouse also has extra outlets for laptops.
"I
wanted to present biblical truths in whimsical and quirky ways," says Doris
La Grone-Kispert, a church member who designed the coffeehouse.
For
example, the bar is lined with bottles, each bearing a single letter, and
together they read: "Strong drink is an abomination of the Lord." A
chalkboard is framed with the verse John 3:16 - "For God so loved the world
that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish
but have eternal life" - written in 27 different languages.
The
window treatments are galvanized tin, and all the plumbing and wiring are
exposed.
"I
wanted to illustrate (that) so much of what goes on in us, it's known only to
God," says La Grone-Kispert. "We don't tell our innermost feelings to
everyone every day. But God knows the inside better than the outside."
College
students make up about half of the 200 who attend Sunday services at the church.
Trinity spent more than $20,000 on the coffeehouse, with help from an anonymous
donor and La Grone-Kispert and her husband. Students pay for their own drinks
and snacks on an honor system, and so far their money has covered costs, Head
says.
The
coffeehouse, open from 6 p.m. to midnight seven days a week when school is in
session, targets primarily the freshmen and sophomores who grow restless in the
dorms near the church. In particular, Head says, it is designed for those from
small towns who might feel lost at the 20,000-student university and may not be
interested in athletics or joining a fraternity or sorority.
They
gather at the coffeehouse for class study groups and Bible study groups. They
watch movies, use the computers, play games and order pizza. Eventually, the
church plans to offer open-mike nights and possibly draw local bands for
concerts.
Cabrera
says she values the coffeehouse for the friends she has met there. She attends
services at the church regularly but prefers getting to know her peers in the
congregation and their friends in a more leisurely setting.
"It's
a place where I spend most of my time," she says.
The
coffeehouse provides an unusual ministry opportunity, according to Nathan
Putman, a student in biology and marine science who lives at the church as an
intern. Students who turn out merely looking for good coffee and company might
learn about other church activities and become involved.
He
especially hopes the coffeehouse steers young students away from groups that
could lead them into the party scene.
"You
come to Alabama, and it's a big place, and a lot of folks don't necessarily know
a lot of people," he says. "You want to have a place where you fit in
and people listen to you and you feel accepted. ... This kind of gives people an
opportunity to come together and meet up with good folks."
*Green
is a freelance journalist based in Nashville, Tenn.
News media contact: Tim Tanton · (615) 742-5470 or newsdesk@umcom.org
FROM
THE TUSCALOOSA NEWS
Holy
Java!
Quirkey's
coffeehouse is hip, happening and holy
September 07, 2003
University
of Alabama college students relax in Quirkey's Cafe in the basement of
Trinity United Methodist Church in Tuscaloosa Thursday evening. The cafe is
open every night from 6 to midnight and has 24 Internet connections.
Staff photo | Jason Getz
The Rev. Alan Head, pastor of Trinity United Methodist Church, wanted
something “funky and far out," in the vein of Central Perk, the
popular “Friends" hangout, and an alcohol-free Cheers.
Doris La Grone-Kispert, a 63-year-old great-grandmother, gave him Quirkey's,
a new cyber coffeehouse in the basement of Trinity United Methodist on
Bryant Drive. Built as a hangout alternative to the bars on The Strip near
the University of Alabama campus, the eclectic coffeehouse has caught the
eye of visitors since its August opening.
“It's wild," said UA sophomore Bess Copeland. “It's like walking
into 'Trading Spaces.' It's something you don't expect to see in the
basement of a church."
Jesus and Java
As coffeehouses have become the laid-back watering holes of 21st-century
society, hundreds of Christian coffeehouses and coffeehouse ministries have
opened across the country, combining Christ and cappuccinos.
Twenty Something, the college and career ministry of First Wesleyan
Church in Tuscaloosa, has provided a coffeehouse atmosphere at its weekly
meetings for the past six years.
“I think it's really been tremendously effective, because I think a lot of
times people can be intimidated by walking into a church and seeing the rows
of pews and the big pulpit," said Twenty Something programs coordinator
Bill McDaniel.
“Hopefully, it creates a very casual, non-threatening environment."
At Trinity, which has the mission statement, “Where searching people can
believe, belong and become," Quirkey's was established as a
“belonging" ministry for the thousands of college students in the
area. Organizers plan for it to be open on a nightly basis 6 p.m.-midnight
and to bring in both Christian and secular musicians on Thursday nights to
entertain guests.
It is also the site of Bible studies, and future plans include a jazz
service. Students help run the hangout, where visitors are on the honor
system to pay for drinks and snacks.
“It's a place that can be theirs [students]," Head said. “We want
them to have ownership."
And although the Gospel message remains the same, La Grone-Kispert said the
settings and avenues to share Christ are continually evolving, with places
like Quirkey's as evidence.
As she designed Quirkey's, which was also built in response the UA's Healthy
Campus Initiative, La Grone-Kispert had concerns that the church might not
approve of some things. But Head had no qualms, even though a “Red
Dog" beer sign adorns one corner of the establishment.
A Mission Found
Head decided a coffeehouse ministry would work for Trinity last fall. La
Grone-Kispert, however, didn't immediately jump at the opportunity.
“The pastor asked me last fall if I would design it and I told him, 'No,'
because I'm retired and I knew what a big job it would be," she said.
“And he said, 'Doris, if you don't design it, it will be bland.' So I
agreed to take on the project as a mission, one of my missions for
God."
With an eye for design and a heart for college students, La Grone-Kispert, a
Tuscaloosa native and wife of UA chemistry professor Lowell Kispert, set to
work revamping the old room, which had been a church parlor and, more
recently, a dusty storage bin.
A retired interior designer, La Grone-Kispert said she always thought God
would call her to be a missionary in a foreign country. But she found her
mission work inside the church she has been attending for the past three
decades.
“Even though I'm white-haired and a great-grandmother, there's still a lot
of creativity coming out," she said. “It was really inspired by
God."
Work on Quirkey's began on May 1 and has cost nearly $20,000. La
Grone-Kispert said nearly all of the work was done by professionals under
her supervision.
“This sort of job is not for the well-intentioned, loving, caring person
who wants to volunteer, because interior design has so many things you have
to consider that you have to be professionally-trained," she said.
The results have surpassed Head's criteria of being a place unlike anywhere
else.
“I think it's fantastic," he said. “I think it's just a work of
art, and I do believe it's inspired. We felt led to ask Doris to do it
because she does have that creativity. We didn't want it to be a place with
drop-down ceiling lights and some Wal-Mart desk."
Symbolic design
True to its name, Quirkey's is certainly not the norm. It's designed to
provide a comfortable place for students to socialize and study. The room
has three 27-inch television sets, two Internet-connected computers, 24
Internet connections for laptop owners, a DVD player, CD player and video
game systems - and that's just the basics.
All that is presented in a colorful backdrop of custom-built furnishings,
artwork and other accessories.
Pieces of galvanized tin form draperies. The baseboards are the aluminum
skirts found on mobile homes. Vegetable and fruit cans form a pair of
bookends. A pair of brown jeans is used as a slipcover for a cushion. Wooden
salad bowls are used as the legs of a coffee table. A ladder has been
converted to an end table.
And not one element of the room is an accident. La Grone-Kispert said every
piece has some Christian significance.
“I find that visualization, that wonderful tool of the arts, it helps to
understand and present concepts and themes," she said.
A few snippets of the symbolism:
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A couple
of red walls that meet at the intersection of a funky cross sprinkled
with red in the center represent the blood of Christ.
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The
underside of the coffee table features a quote by legendary UA football
coach Bear Bryant, “Call your mother."
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The
heating and cooling pipes, as well as much of the electrical conduit are
all in full view.
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“All
those things are totally exposed and it represents how in a person's
life, there are things known only to us, yet those things are open and
exposed to God," La Grone-Kispert said. “He's more interested in
the inside of us - our motivations, our reasons and our relationship
with him than he is our outside appearance."
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Behind the
Red Dog sign is a row of cut out liquor bottles. Looking closer, letters
are found on the bottom of the bottles spelling out, “Strong drink is
an abomination to the Lord."
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“Most
people know that there's Red Dog beer out there now, yet you can have as
much fun without having the substance abuse," La Grone-Kispert
said.
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A
surrealistic painting by La Grone-Kispert is framed on three sides. The
painting has several titles, all of which are painted at the bottom -
“Life Song," “Who's Driving Your Life Anyway? Let it be God,
Let it be God," “Honk if you love Jesus" and “The Sky is
Not The Limit." The picture has different roads in a baby blue sky.
Most end abruptly, except for one.
“There's many different roads you can take," La Grone-Kispert
said, “but then there's a road that goes straight up and the sky is
not the limit and this is the life of Christ."
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A
Tilley's Endurables (a hat company) sign hangs from the ceiling with the
slogan, “Prepare for adventure."
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“What I
liked about the sign is the ëEndurables' and ëPrepare for Adventure,'
because life for the Christian is an adventure, the greatest adventure
you'll ever go on and it's a life-long one," La Grone-Kispert said.
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A
chalkboard displaying the Quirkey's menu is outlined with John 3:16
written in 27 different languages.
“Even if there's a student who comes in here and speaks Swahili,
there's something to make him feel like it's his place," La
Grone-Kispert said.
And so it goes.
Looking at the decorations, it's easy to see the place got its name.
“I was in here working, and I looked at something and I said, 'That's
really quirky,' and I thought, 'This place is just full of quirky
stuff,'" La Grone-Kispert said.
“The kids won't discover everything for months, because there are
little subtle messages everywhere."
Right
at Home
But they've sure had fun trying. Quirkey's grand opening was Aug. 23, and
it's been a hit with most of the students who have wandered in since. “I love this place," said UA sophomore Tiffany Holliday. “I came on
Tuesday night. I didn't even really know about it. I saw the signs and
followed them here. I walked in and said, 'I'm at home.'" That's encouraging news for Adam Randazzo, a UA senior who is one of two
students living at the church and serving as a monitor for Quirkey's.
Randazzo has anxiously awaited Quirkey's opening all summer. “Aw man, I've been looking forward to it," Randazzo said. “Now it's
open and it's really working."
Hearing such comments is also encouraging to La Grone-Kispert. Her mission
appears to have been accomplished.“It really makes my heart feel good."
Chad Berry can be reached at chad.berry@tuscaloosanews.com or (205)
722-0222.
The Designer: Doris La Grone-Kispert
December 02, 2003
Doris
La Grone-Kispert says she just does the things she loves to do. And that’s
a lot. Painting, designing, quilting, cooking, reading, writing. You name
it, and the 63-year-old great-grandmother has probably done it, is doing it
or plans to do it sometime soon.
“What an adventure life is,” she said.
La Grone-Kispert has been retired since 1989, but it hasn’t been a time
for her to ease through life. Even now, she has plans to learn to play piano
and possibly go back to school and get a Ph.D. in counseling.
“When I was 50, I thought I was getting older, and when I was 60,
everything seemed to be freed up,” La Grone-Kispert said. “The pursuit
to gain status or real high goals — I just didn’t feel as much. You feel
free to be yourself and do the things you really enjoy doing.”
When she was 48, she earned her bachelor’s degree in interior design from
the University of Alabama. She went back to school four years ago to study
Italian for a year, culminating in a trip as an exchange student to Italy in
the summer of 2000. During that time, she was asked to paint the ceiling of
the Basilica Cathedral in Monte Cassino, Italy.
“Being afraid of heights, I had to decline that, but that would’ve been
so interesting,” La Grone-Kispert said.
The first part of her adult life was spent raising seven children, much of
it as a single mom after a divorce in 1972. She hopes her life can serve as
an example to others of how quickly things can change.
“It’s motivating, especially to young women who find they aren’t in
the ideal situation at a young age, to realize to start where you are,”
she said.
La Grone-Kispert is still active as an artist and interior designer.
Her latest work is Quirkey’s, a cyber-coffeehouse on the Eighth Avenue
side of Trinity United Methodist Church on Bryant Drive. Loaded with color
and Christian symbolism, Quirkey’s was designed as a hangout for college
students.
Christian symbolism, Quirkey’s was designed as a hangout for college
students.
Inside Quirkey’s are some of La Grone-Kispert’s works of art. Her
painting style is most influenced by master artist David Leffel, with a
focus on light and shadows. She also creates miniatures and likes to include
the occasional surprise in her artwork.
“I like things that you discover later, that you don’t see right away in
the painting,” said La Grone-Kispert, who in 2001 took second place in the
West Alabama Art Association exhibit for an old master still life.
Surprises are something she is full of. She said she likes to keep things
interesting and make people smile and keep a positive attitude through the
ups and downs of life.
“Life is not always great and wonderful,” La Grone-Kispert said. “There
are many negatives and difficult things that come in people’s lives, but
God sees us there.”
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